Hi! I'm Bella.
A Kid With Two Homes.

The purpose of this blog is for kids of divorce to feel seen, heard and less alone.

This blog shares experiences of divorce, separation and family conflict.

This is a platform where you can relate, persevere and seek guidance.

I hope you find this accessible, realistic and beneficial.

Bella x

Bella Duncan

3 min

Welcome!

It is likely you know somebody whose parents are no longer together. In fact, one in five Australian children experience their parents...

Apr 18, 2023
2 min

Organisation

As a kid of divorce, you are always looking for ways to make your situation easier. Here is one: Get. Organised. Trust me, it helps. Why...

Feb 19, 2023
2 min

Routine

Establishing routine is important, especially for kids of divorce. Why? Let’s chat about it. Why Establish A Routine? Establishing your...

Dec 6, 2022
3 min

Awareness

Being a kid of divorce can be hard. Why is it this important to know? Because whoever you are, whatever role you play – you can make a d

Sep 23, 2022
2 min

Resentment

I’ve never wanted to resent my parents for their divorce. Why? Because resentment is such an intense feeling to hold on to. Resentment...

Jun 16, 2022
3 min

Assumptions

If you’re a kid of divorce, you have probably felt as though people have made some assumptions about you and your situation. For example,...

Mar 22, 2022
3 min

Decision-Making

As a kid of divorce, you can find yourself making a lot of decisions. This isn’t always an easy task. Decision making can be challenging,...

Jan 17, 2022
3 min

Holidays

Going on a holiday can be really exciting! However, when you’re a kid with two homes, going on a holiday can also be stressful. You’re...

Dec 23, 2021
3 min

Christmas

For many, Christmas is a time of joy and thanksgiving. However, it can also be a stressful time, especially for kids of divorce....

Nov 28, 2021
3 min

Pressure

As a kid of divorce, you may experience pressure. You may put pressure on yourself. You may feel pressure from your parents, school or...

Sep 26, 2021
4 min

Time

Have you ever felt as though you haven’t spent enough quality time with your parents? Spending quality time with your parents can be...

Aug 30, 2021
3 min

Adapting

If you’re a kid who is experiencing divorce, separation or family conflict, you will likely have to adapt to new circumstances,...

Jul 18, 2021
4 min

Reach Out

For any reason, at any time, you can reach out for help. Experiencing divorce, separation or family conflict is never easy. No matter...

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Hi! I'm Bella. A Kid With Two Homes.

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Hi! I'm Bella.
A Kid With Two Homes.